His Favorite Word

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

I'm not yet a mother, but when I'm writing this post...I feel like one...ngeeee~~~

Gambar2 kt atas nih gmbr cousin aku...name die Muhammad Shafwan Zikri..comeyl x?..hehe..aku yg ltak name tuh...sdap tak? Umur die baru 10 bulan 3 minggu..sbb tu aku rase cm mak sbb I'm 21 nk msuk 22..our age gap dh bley buat anak tau..and the fact yg aku juga salah seorg yg mendidik die, make me feel more like a mother...=_='

Aku pown x igt at this age, sptutnye budak cm die ni dh bley ckap ke blum...tp die ni, die dh bley ckap cket2...well, not exactly speak..more like, imitating...die ade habit to imitate whatever words yg kuar dari mulut ktorg..ktorg refer to aku, nenek aku, mak cik2 aku dan the other cousins...

It's really nothing special...seriously...die same je cm baby2 laen yg aku babysit...well, aku mmg our family babysitter so ramai gler cousins yg mude2 dari aku, aku tolg jage mase diorg kecik2...but what's so special about him smpi aku rase nk blog pasal die ni is his favorite word..

Nak tau tak ape favorite word si shafwan nih???

His favorite word is.....

ALLAH...<3<3<3

Contoh2 time die akan sbut Allah :-

1) Bile aku usik die, amek bantal busuk die, kalu die x ley nk amek...die akan sbut Allah kuat2...

2) Ataupown bile aku geram, aku pluk die kuat2...since die rimas, die akan berusaha nk kuar from the hug smbil sbut2 Allah...hehe..

3) When he want to reach something, but x smpai...

And many other situations when he'll say Allah....die sbut Allah tu mcm kter sbut Allah bile kter cm lenguh2 dan straighten our back..smbil straighten kter punye blakang tu kan kter akan sbut Allah in a special way?Cmtu r die sbut Allah...exactly the same...He's so brilliant..

Dari mane die dgr this word, Alhamdulillah from nenek aku...from aku jgak..dan other family members...tapi selalunye dari nenek aku...nenek aku dh umo 72 nk masuk 73...so, bile die nk bgun dari duduk tu, msti die akan says Allah~~~ sbb sush die nk bgun...Everytime shafwan dgar ni, msti pastu die sbut gak...ngeeee~~~

He also imitates other words from ktorg2..Alhamdulillah, so far x penah dgar lagi die imitate imappropriate words sbb die x penah dgar bnd tu kuar from mulut kami...Thank you sgt2 kt Allah...Rase bersyukur giler sbb our family never said bnd bukan2 dpan shafwan ni...Alhamdulillah jgak habit ktorg ni even time melatah, we'll say Allah...just imagine kalu melatah sbut b**i (lembu pendek)...Naudzubillah...

Ape bnd penting aku nk ckap kt cni adalah nmpak x to all adults out there...especially parents..children see what WE see, hear what WE hear, say what we SAY and do what WE do..that's why, always think wisely before you act in front of them...just imagine, hari2 kter maki2 b***h, b**i dan sebagainya...then, bile anak besar, diorg sbut the same things kter marah2, kter kate x elok..nmpak sgtlah tndakan tdak bijak di situ..obviously they won't listen sbb kter pown buat..

WE HAVE TO TEACH WITH EXAMPLE

Show them good examples, they will be good..bukannye berleter 24/7 soh anak jd elok when kter sndri pown x elok mane..Btol tak? Even kter pown x kan dgr ckap bos yg perangai huduh..same goes to children..they won't do things their parents don't do...so, everyone...ibu2, bapa2, kakak2 atau abang2 especially yg ade baby2 ni...behave appropriately...

For example, nk ajar anak sembhyang...you smbhyanglah jgak...smbhyang skali...they will follow...start from when they're babies..some people say, wtpe...baby lagi...bukan faham pown...tp, you don't know...the memories from zaman baby2 ni, sgt memberi kesan in the development of the babies in the future...bak kate pepatah, "melentur buluh, biarlah dari rebungnya...=)"

Skrg ni, tiap kali aku smbhyang, I even bring him pray with me...x smbhyang skali pown, aku ltak die dlm bilik smbhyg skali ngn aku...now, he can already say Allahuakbar...so cute...=) Nmpak tak? That's one example...

X de r aku nk ckap aku kakak yg baek ke pe, but it's something I'm trying to do...and it's a good thing...sbb mak aku succeed didik aku jd cm die cause she did this...so, this method is working, right? I'm trying to raise him as a REAL muslim...itulah yg aku try buat kt cousins yg laen jgak...sgt susah...baru aku faham susahnye mak abah aku didik aku kcik2 dlu....=_=' Kdg2, cm nk give up...

But Allah keeps me STRONG...cause I know, nilah antara bnd2 yg aku bley sumbg utk islam...nk pi perang, mane mampu...harap2 sgt this small effort dpt tmbah amanah saham akhirat aku...dan sgt2 harap ibadah2 ni btol2 suci dari riya', tkbur dan ape saje yg bley rosakkn amal aku nih...Hope it's counted...inshaAllah...May Allah bless...everyone, pray for me...

I'm just a COWARD

Bismillahirrahmanirrahim...

Cam aku citer kt post nih, dalam proses membaik-pulih imaan dan semangat aku...aku memilih utk lari dari kenyataan..

Cam aku ckap, aku x bkak fb, x bkak twitter n sbgainya...and why is that??? 



Because I am a COWARD...


Yes...


I admit...


Aku mengaku, aku hanyalah seorg pengecut yg bile berdepan dgn unbearable reality, I'll choose to run away..


Sbb aku rase, dgn lari from this truth...it will hurt less...but the truth is, it is not...


And why I'm not afraid to run, because I trust those people whom I run away from, will be willing to accept me with open arms whenever I feel like returning...


That's how much I trust them...


Mesti lar, aku takut kalau diorg lupe kat aku...Siyes..aku TAKOWT....Tapi, utk simply call diorg/text diorg, memerlukan seluruh kekuatan dan keberanian yg ade dlm diri aku nih...kalu korg rase cm exaggerate, up to you guys...tp this is the truth about the 'me' yg pengecut nih...


Sbb aku sgt takowt di'turn down' <x reti cmne nk translate ke Malay>


I might seem strong...but I'm not...REALLY...


I'm scared being alone....I'm scared of loneliness....


Sbb tu aku x nak contact diorg2 nih...cause their lives and my life aren't the same anymore...So, during hibernation nih, aku try to recover...there are times when I feel like I'm okay now...but the truth is, I'm not entirely okay....


You want prove??? Tgok je r time aku balek from NUMed dulu...


I cried the whole journey back from JB...hehe....nseb baek drive sengsorg....kalu x, mau giler aku menahan perasaan...aku pi JB sbb aku igt aku dh okay sepenuhnya...hahaha...mane dtg confident ntah...Oh, baru aku teringat...Aku pi JB utk absorb as much strength as I can from those dear to me...sbb aku tau, the route ahead will be much tougher and sadder...


Why it's so hard for me to face this failure??? People fail and succeed..perkara biase...tapi aosal susah sgt utk aku??? Lembik giler....


Sbb, aku x penah rase aku ade kelebihan lain selain good in studying...aku ni, I'm used to listen to people saying I have ill-behavior...I'm used to people saying I'm good at nothing and that I was lucky Allah gives me a brilliant brain...how pathetic was that?


Sebnarnye, as a muslim...as a true muslim...aku x patowt ter'affected' by bnd2 negatif yg depa2 ni ckap...Allah says in the quran, from a lecture by Ustaz Nouman Ali Khan bertajuk Levels of Faith...aku x nak quote sebijik2, tapi Ustaz ckap...Allah declare manusia sbgai the BEST creation of His...jd, kalu aku dgar hanya Allah, mesti aku x kan ter'affected' by what people says to me...T_T


Tapi, aku kan manusia yg sentiasa ada salah silap....jd, inevitably aku masih ter'affected' sbb sblum ni aku hanya islam pada MyKad...jd, dulu sebelum aku kenal usrah dan islam, aku punye confident level sgtlah tiada...langsung!!!


Aku rase aku not worth-living pown...dahsyat giler kan???


Tapi....


Benarlah seperti kata2 Saidina Umar, 

“Kita ini adalah orang-orang yang paling hina lalu Allah memuliakan kita dengan Islam. Kalau 

saja kita mencari kemuliaan pada selain Islam maka Allah akan menghinakan kita lagi…”

[credit : http://azzariyat.com/2011/01/17/kita-mulia-kerana-islam/]

So, aku mula berubah, confident aku mula naik sedkit demi sdkit kerana aku bangga aku Islam...aku gembira kerana Allah kenalkan aku semula kpd Islam...


But my past is always a part of me...to really be a muslim, there are times aku berjaya, tapi ade jugak time aku gagal...seperti sifat imaan...turun dan naik...


When I failed the first time, I already feel down...but I keep believing...I keep striving...I sacrificed lots of thing....tdor, herbalife, rehat, food dan mcm2 lagi...because I know, Allah will let me pass...


Tapi, the reality is...passing the exam is not the thing I need...How do I say this? Sbnrnye, despite my hard work...aku dpat rase, passing the exam this time is not the best thing for me...aku dapat rase imaan aku terancam kalu aku pass the 2nd exam....kenape??? x perlu aku ceritakan kt cni...ckup la org2 yg dekat tahu...


Tapi, walaupown aku tau bnd ni, masih sangat2 susah utk aku face this truth...All because of my past....the fact yg aku believe I am a good-for-nothing but brain....T_T


Jadi, utk org2 dalam hdup aku especially dearest one...for now, I just need you guys to understand...wlaupown sudah berbulan2...aku masih can't get over it...my tears still falling...aku masih desperate berdoa utk okay...aku nak sgt okay...


Aku nak sgt balik JB dan be able to smile and laugh ngn korg2 tanpa menangis bile aku dok blik sengsorg...hehe...


Jadi, aku harap sgt korg sabar dan percaye kt aku...inshaAllah, aku akan okay...cumenye, fahamilah....aku masih perlukan mase sbb aku hanyalah PENGECUT....mendiamkan diri bukan bererti aku x igt korg...my prayers always there for you guys...


Kenapa aku tulis kt blog nih? Sbb ade yg terasa dgn aku...Astaghfirullah...aku mntak maaf sgt2...aku admit, cm selfish ape yg aku wat nih...aku x terfikir yg mereka2 nih igt kat aku cm aku igt kt diorg...aku igt, tiada sape yg sayang...Allahuakbar..memalukan okeyh fikir cmni...nk wat cmne...this failure blow away aku punye confident...


Hopefully, sahabat2 yg bace akan faham...aku kene luah bnd nih and this blog is the most ideal place to do so and of course, Allah...


Alhamdulillah, aku rase lega pas ckap bnd nih...though it seems unlikely, really hope org yg terasa tu akan bace....inshaAllah...